Put downs are caustic humor

Covert put downs and caustic humor are psychologically abusive

Covert put downs and caustic humor are always telltale warning signs of an Abuser. ¬†Whether it’s your snarky mom or Narcopath dad who makes the cut, a jealous or competitive sibling, or a toxic peer bullying friends and playmates on the schoolyard, it’s never fun. Except for the Sadist, that is — never the victim(s). …

Hoovering leads to Trauma Bonding

Make-Up Sex promotes Trauma Bonding in toxic romantic relationships

Make-up sex promotes “Trauma bonding”. Resist the urge to fall for the hoovering attempts of a love bombing abuser who strives to get YOU addicted to engaging in the adrenal-enhancing romantic pattern. In an adult relationship between healthy, loving, and normal people, a little physical companionship goes a long way to promoting health and feelings …

Smear Campaign Survival

Smear Campaign survival strategies recommended by and for Abuse Survivors

Have you been the targeted victim of a comprehensive smear campaign conducted by a Cluster B predator and their Flying Monkeys? Here are a few validating and consoling words offering reader strategies for coping that work. Smear campaigns are conducted by people prone to social menacing — and Abusers come in all forms. The number …

Borderline Personality Behavior

People with Borderline Personality Disorder can control their own behavior

Think Borderline Personality Disorder is out of your Abuser’s control? Think again. People with BPD oftentimes claim they are not responsible for their abusive temper tantrums because of their psychological condition or “fragile nature” but they absolutely are — and if they tell you they cannot control themselves, they are absolutely GASLIGHTING. People with BPD …

Narcissism definition

Narcissism definition includes grandiose thinking and entitlement

Narcissism: definition of a person whose grandiosity and entitlement based thinking causes them to feel superior to and entitled to use and abuse other people. They are not nice human beings — but they certainly do come across at first as charming, socially savvy, and bright. But before you are duped into believing one’s stories …