Magical Thinking example

Magical Thinking reflects Narcissism in Co-Dependent personalities

Magical thinking is more than positive thinking. It’s not simply daydreaming or “pipe dreaming” as some people might claim. According to Wikipedia, “Magical thinking is the attribution of causal or synchronistic relationships between actions and events which seemingly cannot be justified by reason and observation.” Further, Psychology today notes evidence of Magical thinking springs up everywhere. …

Jesus is talking to everyone

Why Church Doctrine should come with a Warning (and Instruction) Label

The following is a reprint of an article shared by an Episcopal priest — not a Southern Baptist, not a Catholic, not a “Jew”, not a “Tree Hugger”, not the “Liberal Media”, and not a Christian Right wing thinker. In it, he talks about the life and message of Jesus Christ — as the arguably …

Narcissists and Sociopaths share similar traits

Why are Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Psychopaths considered ‘Untreatable’?

Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Anti-Social Personality disorder are considered UNTREATABLE as a mental health problem or condition. Because Cluster B personality types are just that — personality types — there’s no real cure because the diagnosis of the condition has nothing to do whatsoever with illness. When a person develops an egocentric perspective as a …

Copycat Stalking and Bullying

Social Identity Theft and Bullying the goal of many Copycat Stalkers

Is someone who is nuttier than a bag of squirrels copycat stalking while simultaneously striving to smear campaign against you? Here’s why it’s seriously bothersome and such an upsetting thing for a victim of an obsessed, vendetta-fueled, rage-a-holic to have to endure. Social Identity theft of another person’s persona and reputation is a form of …

Schoolyard Bullies become Adult Bullies

What happens when the Schoolyard Bully or Mean Girl grows up

What happens when the Schoolyard Bully or Mean Girl grows up? Childhood bullies tend to become adults who bully.  It is that simple. If a child has a biological predisposition to behaving abusively or aggressively in social environments, it’s a major red flag that they are likely to become active Abusers once they hit their adult years. …

Dependent Personality

Co-Dependent behavior and Dependent Personality Disorder

Co-dependent behavior cripples both the Abuser and the victim. It is an extreme form of codependency, clinging to the notion that in order to keep people in a person’s life that a toxic thinker must manufacture crisis after crisis and extreme chaos for their friends and family on an ongoing basis simply to ensure their …

Living with Sid from Toy Story

Dark Triad victims end up feeling like Sid’s Mutant Toys

Dark Triad abuse victims tend to feel like mutant toys after being abused and bullied. A shadow of their former selves, many are left financially incapacitated, in poor physical health, and suffering from extreme forms of social isolation after being tortured, blamed, shamed, bullied in public as well as private, sexually traumatized, and socially humiliated. …