Kindness matters

The cost of being kind without setting healthy boundaries great for Autistics, Empaths, and People Pleasers

The cost of being kind without setting healthy boundaries is great for Autistics, Empaths, and People Pleasers. One tends to become fiercely codependent without realizing it, leaving a wide-open opportunity for toxic people and Narcissistic Abuse purveyors to abuse goodwill and to mistreat hospitality. People on the Autism Spectrum are more than seven times as …

Narcissists are seldom ethical

Narcissists’ morals and ethics are adaptive to their immediate needs

Narcissists’ morals and ethics are adaptive to their immediate needs. Make no mistake about it — it’s NOT the same thing, exactly, as simple hypocrisy. It’s pervasive gaslighting with the intent to commit profound and comprehensive social fraud. Pretending to have morals in line with the rest of society in public then behaving entirely differently …

Alcohol, Alcoholics, Holidays, Dry Drunks, Parties

When alcohol ruins your family holiday or special event

When alcohol ruins your special event, it’s seldom a happy memory creating circumstance. Actually, people getting drunk and abusing their friends, love interests, and family members at holiday parties is the most reported cause of Holiday PTSD for more than one nation’s worth of family units. People who drink can be a real menace. But …

Malignant Somatic Narcissists

Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types

[A poem.] Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types. Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types who love nothing more than drilling holes in the bottom of social lifeboats. Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types who love nothing more than drilling holes in the bottom of social lifeboats …

Recover from A Smear Campaign

How to recover from a Smear Campaign

Recovering from a smear campaign takes time, mindful gray rock techniques, and ruthless self-examination. It’s possible to do, in theory, but the process seldom feels like something warm and fuzzy. Smear Campaigning is the art of targeting a Narcissistic Rival — with or without their knowledge — for social harm and intentional infliction of emotional …