Why Pathological Liars and Enablers seek to triangulate other people?

Why Pathological Liars and Enablers seek to triangulate

Pathological Liars and Enablers seek to triangulate other humans. It is actual covert social and physical abuse of everyone’s hospitality. Pathological liars tend to be experts at gaslighting. They lie to and about other people in order to strategically manipulate with the hopes of gaining social advantage. Why do they do it? To obscure the …

Dark Triads

Why Dark Triads manufacture chaos while attention seeking

Dark Triads have no original ideas. If you tell them as an advocate what the best thing to do is to minimize duress for others and to net gain them praise, they will be compelled by nature to take in what you say but by free will choice will do exactly whatever it is you …

Grandparent role in High Conflict Divorce

Advice for grandparents of children victimized by High Conflict Divorce

Once upon a time, we had several hundred different emails all asking the same question. Namely, what should a grandparent do if their grandchild is being raised by someone they consider to be morally or socially unfit to parent. Here is the deal.¬†The more you antagonize your own offspring’s romantic partner(s), the worse the situational …

Conflict Resolution requires a diffent strategy with Cluster B people

Typical conflict resolution strategies endanger victims of Cluster B people

Typical conflict resolution strategies endanger victims of Social Predators. It’s true — resist the urge to take relationship or professional advice from any person, mediator, social service worker, or well-meaning friend or family member prone to tolerating or enabling abuse. Those who advocate you confide your innermost thoughts, needs, desires, life circumstances, and feelings in …

Open Letter from Anonymous Women

An open letter from Abuse Advocates to all Abusers and Abuse Enablers

The following “Open letter from Abuse Advocates to all Abusers and Abuse Enablers” was shared with our team in response to the civic social crisis known as the election debacle of 2016. The CLUSTER B nation has risen using a blend of old-fashioned grassroots marketing, gaslighting, and smear campaigning coupled with a heavy push to …

Flying Monkeys are amused by Ad Hominem verbal assaults

Hurling insults reveals true nature of Flying Monkeys and Abuse Enablers

Have you ever tried to make a point in an argument with a narcissistic person or toxic thinker and had them respond to your valid point by failing to validate you, then hurling verbal assaults? It’s a Machiavellian Narcissistic Abuse technique used by Cluster B characters when and if they know they are caught with …

Put downs are caustic humor

Covert put downs and caustic humor are psychologically abusive

Covert put downs and caustic humor are always telltale warning signs of an Abuser. ¬†Whether it’s your snarky mom or Narcopath dad who makes the cut, a jealous or competitive sibling, or a toxic peer bullying friends and playmates on the schoolyard, it’s never fun. Except for the Sadist, that is — never the victim(s). …

Smear Campaign Survival

Smear Campaign survival strategies recommended by and for Abuse Survivors

Have you been the targeted victim of a comprehensive smear campaign conducted by a Cluster B predator and their Flying Monkeys? Here are a few validating and consoling words offering reader strategies for coping that work. Smear campaigns are conducted by people prone to social menacing — and Abusers come in all forms. The number …

Gaslighting is Narcissistic Abuse

Gaslighting a common sign of Narcissism, Narcopathy, and Enabling

Gaslighting — one of the cruelest mental and emotional abuse tricks played on targeted scapegoats and preferred Narcissistic Abuse victims by social predators. But what IS gaslighting and how do you spot the mind game when and if it’s being played by an Abuser or an Abuse Enabler? Gaslighting is covert Narcissistic Abuse (and sometimes …

The Difference between Dark Tetrads and Dark Triads

Growing up the child of a Dark Tetrad or Dark Triad Power Couple

Just a heads up that this article is likely to trigger a very small handful of people. We say that because growing up the child of a Narcissist or Toxic parent is fairly common… but growing up the child of two Dark Tetrad or Dark Triad power couple is not. Children of high power couples …

Dark Triad triangulations Abuse by Proxy

Dark Triads use Abuse By Proxy tactics to enact revenge on Victims

When a Dark Triad personality asks you to help them shame, embarrass, stalk, or hunt down and abuse a target, keep your wits about you and don’t buy into it. Decent human beings never seek to harm an ex-friend, estranged family member, or former love interest. Note that any person asking friends or people attached …