Living with Sid from Toy Story

Dark Triad victims end up feeling like Sid’s Mutant Toys

Dark Triad abuse victims tend to feel like mutant toys after being abused and bullied. A shadow of their former selves, many are left financially incapacitated, in poor physical health, and suffering from extreme forms of social isolation after being tortured, blamed, shamed, bullied in public as well as private, sexually traumatized, and socially humiliated. …

Somatic Narcissism, Triangulation, Serial Cheating, and Sexual Sadism

Serial Cheaters, Somatic Narcissists, and Sadists manufacture triangulation

Men and women from all walks of life — including ages and socio-economic class stereotypes — have cheated on their romantic partners, it’s true. But what few people know or realize about cheaters is an average person can be conned into participating in a Love Fraud relationship or be brainwashed by a Cluster B person …

Cluster B people process toxic shame differently than neurotypical people

Abusers process toxic shame differently than victims of social aggression

Abusers process toxic shame differently than victims of social aggression. It’s a biologically inspired truth. While victims tend to self-reflect and blame themselves for having problems with personal, professional, and romantic relationships, Abusers tend to blame shift compulsively and pride themselves in the thought of having won in what they perceive is nothing more than …

Love Bombing

Love Bombing a common Love Fraud tactic used by Sociopaths

Love Bombing is a common romantic ploy used by anti-social predators in order to secure themselves ample narcissistic supply. Consider it the art of manipulative trolling, only it’s designed to catch big fish rather than to intimidate or frighten. It’s a major red flag of Love Fraud con artists — you know… the people with …

Monty Python's Black Knight a Narcissistic Abuse Victim

Flying Monkeys lie and say Narcissistic Abuse heals over time

Narcissistic Abuse recovery happens with education — not over TIME. Learn how to spot the warning signs you are being abused and make a different choice about who to spend your time with and how you really want to live out the remaining days of the rest of your natural born, God-given (not “parent provided”) …

Cognitive Dissonance fueled by Cognitive Distortions

Cognitive Dissonance is an extreme form of Cognitive Distortion

Cognitive Dissonance is an extreme form of Cognitive Distortion commonly suffered by children of toxic parents and “love fraud” victims. People who enable abuse tend to suffer from Cognitive Dissonance, believing their Abuser has many good qualities that override any evidence they are at all abusive. A victim or enabler tends to treat the Abuser …

Gaslighting is Narcissistic Abuse

Gaslighting a common sign of Narcissism, Narcopathy, and Enabling

Gaslighting — one of the cruelest mental and emotional abuse tricks played on targeted scapegoats and preferred Narcissistic Abuse victims by social predators. But what IS gaslighting and how do you spot the mind game when and if it’s being played by an Abuser or an Abuse Enabler? Gaslighting is covert Narcissistic Abuse (and sometimes …

Socrates was a Whistleblower

Whistleblowers ostracized, exiled, or punished for revealing abuse

Whistleblowers are routinely treated like crap for exposing duplicity and revealing abuse. It is totally common for a whistleblower to report feeling or having been ostracized, exiled, or punished for coming forward with ethical, honest intent about situational abuse or anything clandestine related to their own or another person’s social activities that tend to happen …

Sexual Abuse of Adults and Children includes Hyper-Sexualization and Objectification

Sexual abuse of children and adults common for Dark Triad or Narcopath personality types

Serial sexual abusers tend to have Cluster B personalities that lean toward anti-social personality types. As the ultimate situational abusers, people who aggress, use, harm, or manipulate others into complying to sex willingly (based on presenting themselves fraudulently as caring, loving, kind, or compassionate individuals) are incredibly Machiavellian and covertly narcissistic abusers. Whether people are …

Cognitive Distortion

What is Cognitive Distortion and how does it relate to Narcissistic Abuse?

What is Cognitive Distortion and how does it relate to Narcissistic Abuse? Cognitive distortion is a psychological term used to describe a person or group living under a distorted paradigm of belief. Narcissistic people who fall victim to people like stronger and more toxic gurus are typically the most guilty in the sheer statistical sense …

Narcopath and Love Fraud

What does a Narcopath really mean when they say ‘I love you’

The following article is a reprint of a post we have shared multiple times over on “Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying Monkeys — Oh My!” (TM), the official Facebook Fan Page of Flying Monkeys Denied. So many people ask us to find and re-share the link, we have taken the liberty of sharing the content here …

Trauma bonding tactics include intermittent good-bad behavior on the part of the abuser

Trauma-Bonding brainwashing techniques include good-bad treatment

Narcissists and Anti-Social predators are notorious for manufacturing chaos to worm their way closer to targeted abuse victims. They will set the stage for a target to suffer extreme emotional distress, then will show up mysteriously to “save the day”. It’s a sneaky brainwashing trick to manufacture chaos, then lie to a target in order …