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When Mother’s Day memories bring enormous stress, there’s not much an affected person can do other than to ride out the season of greeting cards and commercials. People who are from toxic families often report loving their mother and noting every mini success in life she once had — but they are quick to note …
How to handle a Holiday Saboteur at Easter, Passover, or any Spring Break like a Narcissistic Abuse recovery pro.
What is a Baiter? According to self-help guru Dr. Phil a Baiter is a Provocateur who has no good will intention behind provocative behavior. A Baiter is a provocateur interested in harming and annoying targeted people. They are socially combative, untrustworthy socially, and typically leave everyone who they socialize with feeling emotionally drained and physically …
What is Collapsed Narcissism? Collapsed Narcissists are big babies prone to behaving in ways that are rooted in nurtured covetous passive aggression. Expect all Collapsed Narcissists to be socially competitive with other human beings for social resources, material goods, things like money, and for attention. But not normal competitors — they tend to loathe and …
Enough is never enough for a Glutton; and Cluster B people in general and by definition are socially, (typically) fiscally, and emotionally gluttonous. Here’s what you need to know and understand in order to deal with that type of person or peer group in the 21st century polite society. First of all, if you are …
Jealousy is a verb. Envy is a Collapsed Narcissist personality state. This is not a long article. Read more here: celebritynarcissists.com Children who bully grow up to groom bullies. SEE: http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/2016/09/14/what-happens-when-the-schoolyard-bully-or-mean-girl-grows-up/ Adults who bully tend to envy other people. “envy” defined as a verb, as in the short form of “tend to be jealous of …
Surviving Parental Alienation during special events, holidays, and birthdays with grace and comfort is indeed possible but it takes planning, effort, and a willingness to feel rather than to avoid intense self-reflection and experiencing complex emotion. If you have been placed into the parental discard pile by an alienated adult or mature age child — …
Individuals on the genetic Autism Spectrum come in all types of personalities ranging from little to no ability to communicate or to care for themselves all the way up to an Einstein or above. People who are on the Autism Spectrum who are considered High Functioning are oftentimes verbal and able to do things like …
The cost of being kind without setting healthy boundaries is great for Autistics, Empaths, and People Pleasers. One tends to become fiercely codependent without realizing it, leaving a wide-open opportunity for toxic people and Narcissistic Abuse purveyors to abuse goodwill and to mistreat hospitality. People on the Autism Spectrum are more than seven times as …
Narcissists’ morals and ethics are adaptive to their immediate needs. Make no mistake about it — it’s NOT the same thing, exactly, as simple hypocrisy. It’s pervasive gaslighting with the intent to commit profound and comprehensive social fraud. Pretending to have morals in line with the rest of society in public then behaving entirely differently …
When alcohol ruins your special event, it’s seldom a happy memory creating circumstance. Actually, people getting drunk and abusing their friends, love interests, and family members at holiday parties is the most reported cause of Holiday PTSD for more than one nation’s worth of family units. People who drink can be a real menace. But …
[A poem.] Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types. Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types who love nothing more than drilling holes in the bottom of social lifeboats. Malignant Somatic Nurtured Narcopaths are socially violent personality types who love nothing more than drilling holes in the bottom of social lifeboats …