Why do people smear campaign gossip and lie

Why narcissistic people lie, smear campaign, and gossip about victims

Why do abusive people lie, spread rumors, and make up malicious gossip? To shame and effectively isolate targets, that’s why. They also do it to tamper with witnesses and victims of crime they enacted or aided and abetted either passively or actively with mindful intent. Narcissistic people are the ultimate social and emotional predators. Truly …

Holidays with Grumpy Cat

Narcissistic people ruin holidays and birthdays by refusing to be pleased

Pleasing others successfully — for an Empath or HSP — is the pinnacle of self-actualization Maslow arguably referred to when discussing his psychological treatise on the human “Hierarchy of Needs”.  Whether narcissistic people act like Grumpy Cat on holidays or every day of the year, the important thing for any self-respecting People Pleaser to realize …

People pleasers are traumatized by toxic family during holidayszed

Toxic family holidays traumatize People Pleasers

Dreading heading home for the holidays? Throwing a toxic family holiday dinner bash for people you know are unlikely to appreciate your efforts or enjoy YOUR company? Welcome to the world of being a People Pleaser. It’s a thing people who are naturally empathetic but are raised in a toxic family are taught to feel …

Toxic Family Members Drink

How to avoid drinking alcohol around toxic family members

Have you ever heard the phrase “misery loves company”? It’s just as true around alcoholics and problem drinkers as it is for toxic family members. And it’s even truer around sensitive holiday times when family members feel compelled to spend meal times together on holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, and Christmas dinner. Gatherings between friends …

war on christmas started by Donald Trump

‘War on Empathy’ bad for global mental health

Have you been emotionally traumatized by the recent events in places like Paris — the city of love whose people and travelers were brutally assaulted in 2015 at the behest of religious narcissists and sociopathic predators? Have you been left in a pervasive state of fear and anxiety over watching five minutes of a popular …

Holiday Sabotage by Narcissists

Why are holiday seasons difficult for so many Americans?

Thanksgiving and Christmas are tough holiday seasons to endure for many Americans, even more so at times than they are for many Europeans. American people are often forced by family to participate in weird social customs like sharing Thanksgiving dinner with their least favorite family members and relatives. Does it seem weird to kick off …

What is Oppositional Defiant Disorder and how does it relate to toxic parenting

Oppositional Defiant Disorder nature nurtured by toxic parents?

Teenagers are the ones most likely to be diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (#ODD), not because they don’t show early warning signs of having the condition by or before the time they go to kindergarten. With increased social and community mobility comes the freedom to actively choose social and emotional behaviors as well as activities. …

Toxic teens are raised by toxic parents

Oppositional Defiant Disorder: What is it and how is toxic parenting related?

Parents, if your child develops a full-fledged personality disorder by the time they hit their teenage years, then YES — obviously your parenting style (in theory) could have exacerbated a pre-existing propensity to develop the condition. It also could have traumatized an otherwise normal, emotionally healthy and sensitive child [i.e. a narcissistic parent with a …

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Narcissistic teenagers reflect thinking of toxic parents and enablers

What is “Oppositional Defiant Disorder”? Something common to have if you are part of the mini-me generation of narcissistic teenagers. Bottom line, narcissistic teens reflect thinking of toxic parents and enablers. It’s a big pain in the butt mental condition for a child or teenager to have, ODD. Most parents or custodial grandparents who are forced …

Why do narcissistic people ruin holidays and special occasions?

Seasonal Wrecking Balls: Narcissistic people hate holidays like Christmas

Narcissistic people are notorious for acting like “Seasonal Wrecking Balls”. They truly enjoy crazy-making and chaos manufacturing to interrupt the tradition of celebrating holidays like Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, Passover and the like in order to ensure all eyes are on them and everyone has given up power and control of their own emotional thoughts and …

Lonely is a state of mind

Lonely is a state of mind: C-PTSD and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Why do narcissistic people strive to socially, emotionally, and financially damage the live’s of their targets? To feel powerful and in control, that is why. The Narcissist knows there is no greater loneliness than feeling trapped and forced to endure isolation and shaming. One would think that forcing a victim to suffer through being targeted …