What to expect if you are a Whistleblower who outs an Abuser — now there is a question we tend to get asked all the time as Narcissistic Abuse recovery advocates. If you are considering outing an Abuser, be mindful. There is a reason why the phrase PLEASE DO NOT KILL THE MESSENGER has been …
A letter to every Narcissistic Abuse victim seeking to join support groups
Dear Readers, This letter is likely to be blunt and not what you might expect or prefer to emotionally hear. That is why we are sharing it — to help people in crisis learn how to cope, de-stress, and manage their own recovery in such a way that keeps everyone safe while decreasing fear. One …
Deflection is a conversational control tactic used to frustrate and abuse
Deflection, by definition, is a Narcissistic Abuse tactic used to frustrate and psychologically control the mind and emotions of a targeted victim. Deflecting an argument by refusing to engage with the subject matter at hand is an age-old trick Cluster B people use on others and strive to teach their offspring to enjoy as a conversational …