If you are a person who strives to avoid spending time with your closest family members at all costs in order to avoid family fights and stress, news about extreme weather events like large-scale flooding, hurricanes, and snowstorms on the horizon are likely to give you pause that requires a physical heebie-jeebie style shudder to …
Repeating lies and gaslighting ad infinitum is a socially competitive brainwashing tactic
Why do toxic people repeat lies, smear campaigning remarks, ad hominem attacks, and false assertions over and over? Listen up, because we are about to tell you the answer you wish everyone has told you the first time you asked… more than likely when you were only two, three, or four years old and became …
How to identify Emotional Abuse if you were groomed to enable Social Predators
Ever wonder if you are being too sensitive or controlling because someone who treated you poorly and abused your hospitality said that you were after they harmed you on purpose or knowingly? You are the victim of a gaslighting social predator, one prone to emotionally and socially mistreating other people. Emotional abuse is common in …
Dehumanization of Whistleblowers and Scapegoats common Narcissistic Abuse tactics
Dehumanization of Whistleblowers and Scapegoats is common in Machiavellian minds. They dehumanize victims to make their target and prospective abuse by proxy marks believe that the person they strive to devalue is not only deserving of abuse but should never under any social circumstance be treated as if they deserve humane social treatment, anything resembling …
Repeating a lie does not make Gaslighting true
Repeating a lie does not make Gaslighting true. Repeating a falsehood louder or more frequently does not magically change reality or the universe. What it does is socially and emotionally brutalize anyone exposed to the gist of the Social Predator. Vladimir Lenin was famous for saying, “A lie told often enough becomes the truth.” He …
How to spot people who lie and who undermine
You know who they are… the Liars, the ‘Underminers’. But typically not until after they have been enabled to size you up as a mark and to target you and your peer group for social attack. Here are a few life-changing tips to help you spot them in life before they have a serious opportunity …
Signs and symptoms of Histrionic Personality Disorder
Histrionic Personality Disorder is the name of the personality type that always leaves the person with it pretending they are acting on a high drama stage. HPD, the nickname for Histrionic Personality Disorder, presents itself as a behavior pattern where whoever has it seems to lack the ability to control their emotions. Many signs of …
What happens to Narcissists in the end
What happens to narcissists in the end? It is a question all of their victims ask themselves eventually somewhere between their wake up and the complete enactment of their healing process. For many people, the best thing to do is to leave the Narcissist long before their end days or senior years come around. It’s …
Smear Campaigning against victims of social crime is witness tampering
Victims of social crime or violent sexual assault are the most common types of people that those who abuse launch smear campaigns against. But it is the people who carry on talking about the victim who are the real social predators — nothing more than Sadistic Voyeurs who act like hyenas while scavenger style picking …
Fireworks, the Fourth of July, and the Holiday Sabotage
Fourth of July holidays are an American tradition complete with fireworks in nearly every town, city area, and community in the country. The issue to be celebrated is supposed to be INDEPENDENCE. The problem is, in homes ruled by overbearing and domineering or unpleasable people, many family members feel like they are being held hostage …
How smear campaigns work
People are likely to believe false or inaccurate information about people they fear or who they don’t know very well, according to the writers at Scientific American magazine. That means Xenophobia — as a harnessed survival instinct — is used by people smear campaigning like a weapon to control other people’s sensory impressions of reality. …
Surviving the Family Smear Campaign
The Family Smear Campaign. Those who have been one’s victim are likely to immediately let out a sigh reading the frame and to experience some form of time travel related PTSD flashback that takes them back to a time when they can physically remember the sensation of emotion caused in their bodies due to other …
Surviving Father’s Day with a Narcissistic Father
Father’s Day — the day children of Narcissistic Fathers dread. You know the drill. Everyone on social media is bragging or pretending that they have the best dad on the planet while you sit and squirm, wishing like heck you could say glowing things about your own father or father figure that even remotely resembles him …
Why the brain cannot stop thinking about Abuse or Abusers after trauma exposure
It is over. You survived. You faced the Narcissist or Sociopathic predator in real life. You lived, you lost, now what did you learn? Your brain, scarred by multiple instances of trauma with PTSD, is likely to still be fixated on processing the threat. Obsessing about abuse is normal and healthy — it’s how the …
How do I know if I am being gaslit?
How do I know if I am being gaslit? Asking yourself that question then doing the self-help work necessary to educate yourself about the red flags and warning signs is essential to breaking the psychological and emotional hold most Love Fraud Predators strive to groom into their victims. People who gaslight — meaning those who …