Somatic Narcissism

When looks and appearance matter to someone more than reality

When looks and appearance matter more than actual reality to a person, they have developed a Somatic personality disorder. People who care more about what people will say or think if and when they hear the truth or witness someone in an authentic state tend to be tunnel visioned, short-sighted, profoundly emotionally and intellectually handicapped, …

Mommy Dearest is a hospitality abuser

When Mommy Dearest demands attention by manufacturing chaos and triangulating

When Mommy Dearest demands attention by manufacturing chaos and triangulating, expect the world around her to literally be expected to stop spinning. Mommy Dearest wants not only her offspring but anyone who knows her to truly believe their personal needs and desires will never matter as much as the social obligation to indulge her every …

Grandparent role in High Conflict Divorce

Advice for grandparents of children victimized by High Conflict Divorce

Once upon a time, we had several hundred different emails all asking the same question. Namely, what should a grandparent do if their grandchild is being raised by someone they consider to be morally or socially unfit to be a parent. Here is the deal. The more you antagonize your own offspring’s romantic partner(s), the worse …

How to spot an abusive personality type prone to violence

How to spot an abusive personality type prone to violence

Are you involved with a person who is verbally combative and prone to violence — but only when there are no witnesses present who might vouch for and/or assist their victim or your Abuser is surrounded by their Flying Monkey Enablers? Are you unsure about how to spot an abusive personality type that is prone …

How to talk to your own child about abuse

How to talk to Adult Children about their own Child Abuse issues

Adults who are aware of child abuse or pervasive neglect issues have a duty to report. Parents of children who are abused or at risk of being abused have a moral and legal obligation to protect.  If you failed to do one or both (regardless of the reason), expect your adult child or adult children to have …

10 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery tips for Adult Children of Toxic Parents

10 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery tips for Adult Children of Toxic Parents

Adult Children of Toxic Parents — who are they? Many times, us. Here’s a quick list of 10 tips and psychological starting point suggestions about how to wake up rapidly and stop perpetuating the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse as it relates to romance and family. Don’t worry — Stockholm Syndrome tends to happen to even …

What to expect from Toxic Parents once they become Senior Citizens

What to expect from Toxic Parents once they become Senior Citizens

Wondering what to expect from toxic parents who spent their youth abusing others? Expect overtly or covertly abusive Senior Citizens to pervasively abuse their friends, family, relatives, and caregivers who check in on them regularly, tend to their daily needs, and strive the most to treat them with care, consideration, thoughtfulness, and compassion. If a …

Narcissistic Abuse of others gets worse when Narcopaths get old

Narcissistic Abuse of others gets worse when Narcopaths get old

Are you wondering what to expect from the Abuser in your life when they get older? Do you find yourself daydreaming and hoping that once your deplorable lover, long time friend, or family member matures a few more years that they will suddenly see the light and begin to value the concept of treating people …

Flying Monkeys are amused by Ad Hominem verbal assaults

Hurling insults reveals true nature of Flying Monkeys and Abuse Enablers

Have you ever tried to make a point in an argument with a narcissistic person or toxic thinker and had them respond to your valid point by failing to validate you, then hurling verbal assaults? It’s a Machiavellian Narcissistic Abuse technique used by Cluster B characters when and if they know they are caught with …

Mary Had a Little Lamb

10 Commandments of Pro-Social Parenting

Parent Abuse tends to happen to senior citizens and adults whose children have been abused by Cluster B adults, forcibly estranged, or alienated. They can be alienated during their childhood, as young adults by toxic peers, and in adulthood if and when they enmesh with a LOVE FRAUD con artist or narcissistic romantic partner. Toxic …

Alcoholic Mothers and Female Problem Drinkers

Growing up with an Alcoholic Mother traumatizes children

Being born into a family with problem drinkers and / or an ALCOHOLIC MOTHER can create a lifetime of personal and psychiatric issues for Adult Children of Alcoholics. If you drew the genetic short straw when it came to birth or adoptive parents, know this: you are not alone in thinking that the way they …

bad grandpa and mommy dearest toxic grandma

Parents who demand Grandparents Rights reflect entitlement-based thinking

Demanding Grandparents Rights is Narcissistic Abuse of Adult Children, co-parents, step-family members, and Grandchildren as a family unit. It is a prevalent form of Narcissistic Abuse, to force the parent of a child to leave a child with a grandparent when and if the parent or co-parent does not feel comfortable personally allowing it. Whether …