when inlaws bully

Why Toxic Family members act like serial bullies toward targeted Inlaws

Have you been targeted for romantic relationship destruction by an Inlaw? Ever wonder why? Because knowing the answer to that very question about their motivation can help you go gray rock and to detach yourself from feeling the need to respond when and if their baiting, provocative, or outright overt or covert deplorable behavior cyclically …

Somatic Narcissism

When looks and appearance matter to someone more than reality

When looks and appearance matter more than actual reality to a person, they have developed a Somatic personality disorder. People who care more about what people will say or think if and when they hear the truth or witness someone in an authentic state tend to be tunnel visioned, short-sighted, profoundly emotionally and intellectually handicapped, …

Mommy Dearest is a hospitality abuser

When Mommy Dearest demands attention by manufacturing chaos and triangulating

When Mommy Dearest demands attention by manufacturing chaos and triangulating, expect the world around her to literally be expected to stop spinning. Mommy Dearest wants not only her offspring but anyone who knows her to truly believe their personal needs and desires will never matter as much as the social obligation to indulge her every …

Grandparent role in High Conflict Divorce

Advice for grandparents of children victimized by High Conflict Divorce

Once upon a time, we had several hundred different emails all asking the same question. Namely, what should a grandparent do if their grandchild is being raised by someone they consider to be morally or socially unfit to be a parent. Here is the deal. The more you antagonize your own offspring’s romantic partner(s), the worse …

How to spot an abusive personality type prone to violence

How to spot an abusive personality type prone to violence

Are you involved with a person who is verbally combative and prone to violence — but only when there are no witnesses present who might vouch for and/or assist their victim or your Abuser is surrounded by their Flying Monkey Enablers? Are you unsure about how to spot an abusive personality type that is prone …

How to talk to your own child about abuse

How to talk to Adult Children about their own Child Abuse issues

Adults who are aware of child abuse or pervasive neglect issues have a duty to report. Parents of children who are abused or at risk of being abused have a moral and legal obligation to protect.  If you failed to do one or both (regardless of the reason), expect your adult child or adult children to have …

10 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery tips for Adult Children of Toxic Parents

10 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery tips for Adult Children of Toxic Parents

Adult Children of Toxic Parents — who are they? Many times, us. Here’s a quick list of 10 tips and psychological starting point suggestions about how to wake up rapidly and stop perpetuating the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse as it relates to romance and family. Don’t worry — Stockholm Syndrome tends to happen to even …

What to expect from Toxic Parents once they become Senior Citizens

What to expect from Toxic Parents once they become Senior Citizens

Wondering what to expect from toxic parents who spent their youth abusing others? Expect overtly or covertly abusive Senior Citizens to pervasively abuse their friends, family, relatives, and caregivers who check in on them regularly, tend to their daily needs, and strive the most to treat them with care, consideration, thoughtfulness, and compassion. If a …

Narcissistic Abuse of others gets worse when Narcopaths get old

Narcissistic Abuse of others gets worse when Narcopaths get old

Are you wondering what to expect from the Abuser in your life when they get older? Do you find yourself daydreaming and hoping that once your deplorable lover, long time friend, or family member matures a few more years that they will suddenly see the light and begin to value the concept of treating people …