Have you ever met a person with HPD or “Histrionic Personality Disorder”? Chances are you have but you might not know it. All you know is memories of the person include a larger than life, dominating persona that demanded everyone’s undivided and complete attention whenever they were present.
“Persons with Histrionic Personality Disorder are characterized by a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking…” say the people at Community Counseling Services. “Their lives are full of drama (so-called “drama queens”). They are uncomfortable in situations where they are not the center of attention.”
According to the source, individuals with HPD are very similar in nature. They say those with this unique but memorable personality disorder are commonly provided as descriptors by friends, relatives, casual onlookers, and therapists:
- People with this disorder are often quite flirtatious or seductive and like to dress in a manner that draws attention to them. They can be flamboyant and theatrical, exhibiting an exaggerated degree of emotional expression.
- Simultaneously, their emotional expression is vague, shallow, and lacking in detail. This gives them the appearance of being disingenuous and insincere.
- Moreover, the drama and exaggerated emotional expression often embarrass friends and acquaintances as they may embrace even casual acquaintances with excessive ardor, or may sob uncontrollably over some minor sentimentality.
They also went on to share the following details about folks with HPD from the perspective of their friends, family, romantic interests, and co-workers. they say, “People with Histrionic Personality Disorder can appear flighty and fickle. Their behavioral style often gets in the way of truly intimate relationships, but it is also the case that they are uncomfortable being alone. They tend to feel depressed when they are not the center of attention.”
When people with HPD are in relationships, “they often imagine relationships to be more intimate in nature than they actually are…” says the organization. “People with Histrionic Personality Disorder tend to be suggestible; that is, they are easily influenced by other people’s suggestions and opinions. A literary character that exemplifies the Histrionic Personality Disorder is the character of Blanche DuBois in Tennessee William’s classic play, “Streetcar Named Desire”.”
WebMD confirms the HPD personality type, sharing the H may present with any one of the following affectations or symptomatologies, including but not limited to having a colossal sense of self-importance. The list of red flags to watch for are as follows.
A person with this disorder might also:
- Be uncomfortable unless he or she is the center of attention
- Dress provocatively and/or exhibit inappropriately seductive or flirtatious behavior
- Shift emotions rapidly
- Act very dramatically, as though performing before an audience, with exaggerated emotions and expressions, yet appears to lack sincerity
- Be overly concerned with physical appearance
- Constantly seek reassurance or approval
- Be gullible and easily influenced by others
- Be excessively sensitive to criticism or disapproval
- Have a low tolerance for frustration and be easily bored by routine, often beginning projects without finishing them or skipping from one event to another
- Not think before acting
- Make rash decisions
- Be self-centered and rarely show concern for others
- Have difficulty maintaining relationships, often seeming fake or shallow in their dealings with others
- Threaten or attempt suicide to get attention
- Cause some sort of drama
- Flirt and talk loudly
- Tell stories in engaging and interesting ways
- Dress seductively
- Interrupt conversations
- Play the victim or princess
Bottom line, people who have Histrionic personalities are larger than life in their everyday persona. While they can be entertaining, their constant attention-seeking nature can be both baffling( to have to be around) and emotionally draining for any friend, family member, co-worker, or current romantic interest they target for use and narcissistic supply regularly.