Caulk Blockers Smear Campaigning Tampering With Witnesses
Bullying, Mobbing, Smear Campaigning, This Just In, Whistleblower

Smear Campaigning against victims of social crime is witness tampering

Victims of social crime or violent sexual assault are the most common types of people that those who abuse launch smear campaigns against. But it is the people who carry on talking about the victim who are the real social predators — nothing more than Sadistic Voyeurs who act like hyenas while scavenger style picking …

July 4th
Holidays and Birthdays, This Just In

Fireworks, the Fourth of July, and the Holiday Sabotage

Fourth of July holidays are an American tradition complete with fireworks in nearly every town, city area, and community in the country. The issue to be celebrated is supposed to be INDEPENDENCE. The problem is, in homes ruled by overbearing and domineering or unpleasable people, many family members feel like they are being held hostage …

BPD
Smear Campaigning, This Just In

How smear campaigns work

People are likely to believe false or inaccurate information about people they fear or who they don’t know very well, according to the writers at Scientific American magazine. That means Xenophobia — as a harnessed survival instinct — is used by people smear campaigning like a weapon to control other people’s sensory impressions of reality. …

Narcissistic Fathers
Daddy Issues, This Just In

Surviving Father’s Day with a Narcissistic Father

Father’s Day — the day children of Narcissistic Fathers dread. You know the drill. Everyone on social media is bragging or pretending that they have the best dad on the planet while you sit and squirm, wishing like heck you could say glowing things about your own father or father figure that even remotely resembles him …

Why the brain tends to fixate on abuse and the abusers
C-PTSD, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, This Just In

Why the brain cannot stop thinking about Abuse or Abusers after trauma exposure

It is over. You survived. You faced the Narcissist or Sociopathic predator in real life. You lived, you lost, now what did you learn? Your brain, scarred by multiple instances of trauma with PTSD, is likely to still be fixated on processing the threat. Obsessing about abuse is normal and healthy — it’s how the …

Gaslighting signs
Gaslighting, Love Fraud, This Just In

How do I know if I am being gaslit?

How do I know if I am being gaslit? Asking yourself that question then doing the self-help work necessary to educate yourself about the red flags and warning signs is essential to breaking the psychological and emotional hold most Love Fraud Predators strive to groom into their victims. People who gaslight — meaning those who …

Serial Cheating Signs
Serial Cheating, This Just In

Signs of Serial Cheating

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cluster B personality types only escalate and get better at hiding their cheating and social betrayal of spouse and love interest hospitality. If you live with or know a person who gaslights their mate, understand everyone involved has been socially and energetically exposed to a profoundly toxic and dysfunctional …

Personality traits of Serial Cheaters
Serial Cheating, This Just In

Common personality traits of Serial Cheaters

Serial Cheaters all tend to have common personality traits. Learning how to spot the red flags that someone is a Love Fraud con-artist can help save you time and tremendous romantic heartache when and if you heed the warnings and choose to actively avoid any romantic intrigue with charming but sexually untrustworthy people. Narcissism — …

Ending a relationship with a toxic family member -- how to know when
Classic Self-Help Literature, This Just In

How to know when to end a relationship with a toxic person

Wondering when it is time to say enough is enough or time’s up to a toxic, narcissistic, abusive, or generally problematic family member who abuses or neglects other people’s hospitality? There is a list on the internet floating around that was originally created by Sherrie Campbell, a licensed California psychologist and author of the book “Loving …

Credibility
This Just In, Vocabulary

What makes a first person source or someone who claims to be an expert credible?

What makes a first-person source or someone who claims to be an expert credible? When and if the person sharing information is likely to be accurate with their oral and written speech choices at all times to the best of their ability. People who gaslight or who lie to do things like play mind games …

Just One Thing
Classic Self-Help Literature, This Just In

What’s important to remember is…

What’s important to remember is… what Curly said in “City Slickers”, the 1991 blockbuster movie hit starring Western Cowboy movie legend Jack Palance and comedian turned movie star, Billy Crystal. What’s important to remember is just one thing. That you are who you decide to be. And what matters to you is the one thing …

When distraction tactics are used for social sabotage
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When Distraction Tactics are used as Social Sabotage

Distraction tactics can be used for social sabotage. Be mindful it is Narcissistic Abuse of a listener’s hospitality to mislead them deliberately away from thinking about or discussing a pertinent topic. What are distraction tactics by definition when used discussing the concept of covert and overt Narcissistic Abuse? The term tactic itself imparts the gist …

Signs and Symptoms of Autism in Females
Autism Spectrum, This Just In

Signs and Symptoms of Autism in Females

Autism in females is oftentimes misdiagnosed socially and medically as some form of a tendency to be overly emotional. You asked for a sign about what’s wrong with you and causing all the discontented emotions? Here’s your list, ladies. Have no fears. There’s lots of insightful material presented in this article to make it worth …

Love Fraud victims not laughing on April Fools Day
Holidays and Birthdays, This Just In

When your romantic relationship feels like a joke (but it’s not April Fool’s Day)

Are you the victim of a Love Fraud predator? Were you tricked emotionally into trusting someone who turned out to be nothing more than an abusive romantic game player or a serial cheater? If the answer to any of those questions is yes, welcome to Narcissistic Abuse recovery for people-pleasers. April Fools day is what …